That is so mean. He should go to jail for that. Assaulting a child like that is reprehensible. A parent has the choice as to whether they will use corporal punishment for bad behavior (kid bad, spanking... I got spanked as a kid)... but spanking someone else's kid?!
But the strange thing is- what if the mother of this kid was truly a moron? Maybe it was the Mom that should have been chastised. What if the kid was grabbing every toy and saying "I want this!" and the mother was totally exasperated? Maybe she was a single mom (or any other kind of mom- as if it matters) who was unable to control the child's tantrums? What if the real story was not reported as actually happened? (
Red Flag) We all know that stories like this are inaccurately reported. Maybe the mother thought she could file a lawsuit by accusing the ugly man who asked her to control her offspring?
I have my own Wal Mart story. When my son was 2, we were at Wal Mart and we had a great time shopping for sundries. It was really cold outside and when we were done at the checkout, my son refused his coat. I spent a good twenty minutes trying go get him to put his coat on to no avail. He flat-out refused. There was nothing I could do to get that coat on my boy. I am sure that at least 20 Wal Mart employees witnessed my attempts to get that coat on. We were hot, sweaty, and tired. I figured this would be a good learning moment (don't want the coat? then be cold), so I proceeded to go outside with my cart (heavy) and my kid (un coat-ed).
We weren't outside more than 5 seconds when people driving by started yelling at me. "Oh my God... put a coat on that poor child!", and "Put an effing coat on that thing!!!", and "what kind of mother are you?". Hello, I had just spent 20 minutes trying to put a coat on him already!
It only took me about 20 seconds to get to the car. And, 30 degree weather is not going to kill a child in the 20 seconds it takes to get to the car. He was fine. Not even cold, actually, since we were so hot to begin with. The cold air was refreshing. He was perfectly happy without a coat.
So, here we are now at age 7. He has learned (wow what a concept) that when he needs a coat, he needs a coat. He is occasionally swerved by the high school kids who insist that they don't need a coat when it's -18 F, but for the most part he chooses to wear a coat if it's really cold. I was so emotionally damaged by all those people yelling at me- but in the end my kid has become the ultimate decider of whether he would like a coat. How simple, how independent. It's the thing I strive for.