I left there feeling a little angry, because he had essentially cheated me out of an enjoyable get-together. More than that, I guess I felt devalued and even used, because it was clear that he wasn't interested in me as ME, but he just wanted ANY old body to be his captive audience.
Anybody else?
oh im hearin that.
guy contacted me off the dating site i am registered with. we have nothing in common, but weve hung out a few times. and its been nice, casual. he said the reason he first contacted me was bc he thought i was "funny"; he said to me, "I laffed from one end of your profile to the other". he is actually a sweet guy. but hes grumpy.
hes so grumpy that all he can do is brood -constantly- about what a mess his place is as he intends to move soon.
im like, But dude, if you stopped complaining for an hour and just did some cleanup you would get past this. i helped him clean up for 1/2 an hour....
hes whinning away constantly about all his problems. finally, i said, Look! You HAVE no problems!
then he says, "This place looks better already!"
but the actual reason i was there was to pick up some rat poison he said would work on my rodents in the house. instead of giving me the poison -or offering to do it for me- he says,
"Im going to vacuum now."
:'(
im like, Dude!
he says, "I gotta clean up".
so i said: Im going.
he said, "OK", and then he left the room -and- closed the door!!
i thought OMG! ive been dumped!
so i got up to go...
...i open the door... and on the porch there was this stray that is at his place all the time. an orange tabby and we love each other. she purrs when i touch her. she lets me hold her.
she doesnt have a name.
he used to say "You and
that cat."
he had kicked her out as soon as i arrived.
he grabs her and says, Shes goin out."
i said, no!
he said, "Shes goin outside! She stinks!"
and he chucked her out.
...so on my way out i saw her on the porch. and she looks up at me...
...and im thinking...
Ok, well, i guess this is the last time for us....
...shes purring away at me... ...shes holding me with both arms around my neck...
and in a split second, i decided. i start running to the car. we busted out.
she even loved the car ride over. shes right at home. were both happy.
and yes, she stinks.
she also has fleas.
she drools when shes asleep, which is all the time, except when shes following me, but who cares?
her nap schedule has kept her very busy so i am starting to doubt she will take car of the rodents.
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Word to the street. 
did i say whine & snivle...? im sure that is not what i meant. my bad! 
