just how angry I should be . . . I really need opinions.
DD#1 is having a Magic Party for her birthdays . . . it's what her crowd is into. She's the only girl in this group that's into the Magic game, and that's caused some hurt feelings in the past. A couple of the boy's moms, who don't know her and don't understand that she's just 'one of the guys' and a friend, not girlfriend, have left her off the guestlist for their parties. Most of the mom's have invited her, she's gone to the parties and everyone had a great time.
So we mailed her invites last Wednesday and people got them Friday and Saturday. We get a call on Saturday afternoon (after the mail arrives) from a mom who lives just down the street. Her son would love to come to the party, oh and by the way, she's invited to his party the next day at noon.
We never got an invitation to this party of his except this phone invite at the very last minute. I don't think we would have even gotten that if they hadn't gotten our invitation. I HAVE discussed how she'd been left out of parties with this mom, so she knew that it would cause hurt feelings and that DD didn't mind being the only girl.
So fine, that kid is one that I'm not fond of anyway. He's the same kid who broke the seat belt in my car, my daughter's lap top and the front closure under the dash of my car. His parents were obnoxious about it and so we stopped carpooling.
Today, she's called me 4 times. First time she just asked me to call her. Second time she gave me her cell # and asked me to call it. Third time she asked for a list of the kids coming to the party so she could offer rides to the kids. This woman lives 1/2 a mile from me and the next closest kid is 4 miles away - the rest are farther away than that and off in several directions, so I know that was BS. The last time was just a few minutes ago and she didn't leave a message.
I dunno what she wants, but I'm pretty ticked off.