Welcome Amy. Sorry you seem to get different info from different people, but sometimes that is the way it is with us too. Our experiences seem to differ greatly from person to person. What works with me may not work with you. But like the others have said, we have people here varying from ones who are ponder wanna beeeees and some with ponds the size of lakes. Some are totally homemade DIY types and some are totally professionally installed. Some have had ponds, fish, marginals, water plants, turtles, wild fish, for many years and some are just getting started. One fun thing is that we are are so different with different backgrounds, jobs, and interests so usually there is someone here who can give an opinion or answer a question about most anything your little ole heart wants to know. Sometimes they give an opinion even when we didn't ask for one. LOL. But basically, we have a pretty good bunch here. Jerry and Sean keep a good eye on us and make us behave. By the way, don't be afraid to ask questions about anything, someone here will try to answer.