LeeAnne - you're my kinda gal!! That whole "...freely admit..." paragraph coulda been written by me.
I used to beat myself up for slacking off re house cleaning and filing and the like. I was driving myself crazy and running myself ragged, staying up 'til the wee hours, trying to get everything done. Then one day, I realized that the world won't stop and life as we know it won't end if these things aren't done as well as I'd like them to be done - or even done at all.
And it's true. I stopped sorting all my old bills by utility type and month, and - the world did not stop turning! It took work, but eventually I taught myself to sit still and do NOTHING while I watched a movie. I, too, walk over piles of clothes, and store stacks of papers on the floor.
But ya know what else? I have a lot of friends, I go a lot of places, do a lot of things, have a zillion interests, take care of my pets, enjoy my yard, play and recreate. I'd rather have all those things and experiences, than a pristine house or neatly filed receipts from '03.