Now I may get mail denying that. it's OK we like 'em no matter what you call them.
This is a gag you have heard, but at the time I hadn't. A much older fishing buddy and I were eating in coffee shop. Tom was 56 then i was 27. The waitress had one of those little name tags on her chest. It said "Donna" Tom blithely asked her what she called the other one. i was mortified.
He eventually did date her.