Okay, I know on my other forum we do the gifts sorta like secret Santa, you swap with one person but don't know whow till you get your gift, same with the ornament. The cards you swap with all that sign up. That way you don't have to buy or do cards for the ones that don't sign up. It is such fun exp. the cards.Plus addys are not posted only the one in charge see's them and the person that gets signed up with them.