I gave her mom a bunch of mini carnations, she liked them and put them at the center of the table. Her mom's a great cook...she made some awesome cheesecake, and the food was great. I think we're both good cooks depending on the meal, so that works out for both of us.
Before the meal ... everyone formed a circle and we all joined hands while her neice (15) said grace, during which she 'welcomed me to the family'. As soon as she said that, I guess she realized that Kim and I aren't quite married yet, so she added "and having him here to join us".
I like her family, and was a little nervous yesterday, but it was nice.