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Offline Sean

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Our very own MikeW would probably not go out of his way to let everyone know he was placed in a difficult circumstance today. He was faced with putting to sleep one of his beloved miniature French poodles.

He lost Maggie today, the female of the brood of three poodles. She will be sadly missed by myself as I am sure anyone else who was lucky enough to make her acquaintance.

I didn't know what to say to my best friend Mike while on the phone with him earlier tonight. I lost my own companion pet earlier this year and while I can understand how he must feel, he has nobody more than the other two poodles for comfort right now.

I hope you will all join me in wishing Mike the best in his loss and send him heartfelt strength. Maggie was a wonderful companion. I knew her well and her loss will also affect me greatly.

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I can't think of anything to say, Mike that will make you feel any better. Maggie looks so sweet in the photos. I understand how difficult it is to say goodbye to a beloved pet. I had to make the same decision with my Shauna last fall. I still miss her.

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There is nothing anyone can say, but we do all care Mike. It's a very difficult decision to make.

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i would think that almost everyone who loves animals has been placed in this very difficult position at some point in their life.  i had to a few years ago with our oldest cat, sophie.  it is a horrible thing to do at the time you do it, but eventually you see the gift you are giving by lovingly letting your pet go without anymore pain.  it will take a while for you to know that what you did was with the greatest love your pet could know.  i am glad you have your two other poodles to help ease the pain. you will be able to remember fondly her loving memories while playing with the remaining two beauties.  there are always so many wonderful memories of our pets and it is hard to think of them at this time, but it helped me a lot to think of the good life she had while putting behind me the memory of how her life came to an end.
you know we all feel for you mikew
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Big empathetic hugs across the miles to Mike.
I am so sorry Mike.
Words suck at times like this. :(

She was a beautiful little girl! o(:-)
Peace to all  ... Joyce



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I'm sorry, It's so hard to loose a beloved pet.

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That is so sad, so sorry Mike. {{{{{hugs}}}}}}} from us.
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I'm so very sorry Mike  :'(  .. {{{{{hugs}}}}}

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Oh Mike. I'm so sorry for your loss. I have lost several pets down through the years, so can empathize.

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Mike I'm so sorry for your loss!  Wish I had the words to make it hurt a little less...but I don't.  Just think how wonderful it must be for Maggie now!  She's in a place where there is no pain - lots of wonderful things to eat (and wonderfully stinky stuff to roll in!)!  She'll be watching over you and the boys, so you guys better be good!  And remember that you will see her again!
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Oh Mike!  We all know from all your posts about that beautiful little girl how much you loved her.  This is going to be a very hard time for you and the two remaining furkids.  Please know that I am thinking of you.  I'm so sorry for the hurt you are going thru.  Be sure to give Bear and Andy lots of extra love right now, they'll need comforting too!

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Mike, I'm so sorry for your loss of Maggie.
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Sorry to hear this Mike.

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For you Mike, I have carried this poem in my wallet for years, since our first beagle Patch
left us. It's special to me, I always loved Jimmy Stewart, a great American.
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"Beau"
by Jimmy Stewart
    
He never came to me when I would call
Unless I had a tennis ball,
Or he felt like it,
But mostly he didn't come at all.   

When he was young
He never learned to heel
Or sit or stay,
He did things his way.

Discipline was not his bag
But when you were with him things sure didn't drag.
He'd dig up a rosebush just to spite me,
And when I'd grab him, he'd turn and bite me.

He bit lots of folks from day to day,
The delivery boy was his favorite prey.
The gas man wouldn't read our meter,
He said we owned a real man-eater.

He set the house on fire
But the story's long to tell.
Suffice it to say that he survived
And the house survived as well.

On the evening walks, and Gloria took him,
He was always first out the door.
The Old One and I brought up the rear
Because our bones were sore.

He would charge up the street with Mom hanging on,
What a beautiful pair they were!
And if it was still light and the tourists were out,
They created a bit of a stir.

But every once in a while, he would stop in his tracks
And with a frown on his face look around.
It was just to make sure that the Old One was there
And would follow him where he was bound.

We are early-to-bedders at our house--
I guess I'm the first to retire.
And as I'd leave the room he'd look at me
And get up from his place by the fire.

He knew where the tennis balls were upstairs,
And I'd give him one for a while.
He would push it under the bed with his nose
And I'd fish it out with a smile.

And before very long
He'd tire of the ball
And be asleep in his corner
In no time at all.

And there were nights when I'd feel him
Climb upon our bed
And lie between us,
And I'd pat his head.

And there were nights when I'd feel this stare
And I'd wake up and he'd be sitting there
And I reach out my hand and stroke his hair.
And sometimes I'd feel him sigh
        and I think I know the reason why.

He would wake up at night
And he would have this fear
Of the dark, of life, of lots of things,
And he'd be glad to have me near.

And now he's dead.
And there are nights when I think I feel him
Climb upon our bed and lie between us,
And I pat his head.

And there are nights when I think
I feel that stare
And I reach out my hand to stroke his hair,
But he's not there.

Oh, how I wish that wasn't so,
I'll always love a dog named Beau.

This poem was taken from Jimmy Stewart and His Poems by Jimmy Stewart, a short collection of poems published by Crown Publishers, Inc. in 1989. To order this book, call the Full Circle Book Store at 1-800-683-READ. Refer to ISBN number 0-517-57382-2. It's a little illustrated hardback that costs about $12.




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I'm very sorry, Mike.

Another friend of mine lost her cat after 17 years recently and she has been a mess. I can only imagine how you feel.
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Thanks Sean for sharing Mike’s loss.  I met Maggie and Mike’s other pets last Saturday.  She was a very frail pet but still followed Mike wherever he went.  Take care Mike.
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So sorry.

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Johns said it so well.  My deepest sympathy Mike
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Mike and Sean, sorry I am just now seeing this. I've lost two of our babies this year including our little white poodle. There aren't any words Mike it is going to take time and lots of it. Cherish the memories and know your baby is well and running around in Heaven healthy and healed. The holidays will be hard ....... at least they are for me because this will be the first Christmas in 15 years without my girls. You're in my prayers, my thoughts........I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Oh Mike .. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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Sorry to hear this Mike. Take care.
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Know all too well how you feel about your losing baby.  And yes, at risk of offending some,
my dog is my "baby".  Kids all grown and gone, so why not. We lavish love on her.  Will
take a long while to get over missing  your puppy.  Lost my poodle almost two years ago,
and still think about her.  Your other two babies miss her too, so give them some extra
love.   Sorry that it had to happen.  Marie

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This is not the final chapter in the life of your darling Maggie.  My love and prayers enfold you and those who are grieving with you... :'(
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I'm so sorry. I am a huge animal lover and know from being there what it's like to lose them. Like Marie said, your other 2 will probably be droopy for a while, we have seen that twice when one pet passes away and the other is as sad as we are. So the 3 of you share extra hugs and snuggles.
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Mike, I'm so sorry you lost your Maggie.
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Thank you so very much for the thoughts everybody. Man, life sure knows how to throw a sucker-punch. I'm quite lost at this point, but thank you for being there.

Mike (and Bear, and Andy)
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I"m so sorry Mike. We've all been there at one time or another,but that doesn't make it any easier. It sure is one of life's most suckiest times.  Hang in there. HUGS!!!!!!!!

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I am sorry to hear this Mike I am a dog person. I have had my 2 jacks now for a couple of years. I lost my Moms sheltie and did not have a dog for almost a year. that was a long year. That was the only year of my 52 years that I was without a dog. Sorry.

 

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