Thanks all, and sorry, I can't think straight here. Here date of death was Monday the 8th of March, not the 1st like in one of my posts, I just realized that.
Thank you all again for everything!
Hanging in there and trying to figure out where to lay her ashes. Mom thought she could put her in her plot along with my sister that died at birth, but found out can only have two to a grave! My mom is checking into having her laid to rest with my dad in the cemetary in Vermillion, SD but she wasn't married to him anymore at the time.
I told her I could check and have her buried at my gravesite along with me, beside my deceased husband, we will have to see.
Thinking straight is really hare right now.