Ummm... is there a reason for this?
I'm happy to rattle the pom poms, but is it National Mental Health week/day... or something?
In my limited experience, depression is readily treatable. Although it IS a killer, you can get help.
And its really silly, borderline stoopit, to refuse help.
Grief, however, was crippling, and incurable. You just keep breathing and someday you can get out of bed again.