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A very sad, tragic day
« on: September 08, 2011, 10:38:40 PM »
Dear Ponders

Firstly I will introduce myself.  My name is Sarah and I am Scott's wife.

I am writing this post to inform Scott's many friends here that, sadly and tragically, Scott passed away earlier today.

He took ill early this afternoon and was rushed to the emergency hospital, where, after several frantic attempts to save his life with CPR and oxygen induction, he died approximately one hour later.
The actual cause of death is still undetermined, but his oxygen levels were dangerously low when he arrived at the hospital and never recovered to a sustainable level.
I went to the hospital with him, and was with him at the exact point the doctors made the decision that no audible or visual lifesigns were present, and he was pronounced dead.
They will be performing an autopsy, so at this time, I do not have any details of when or where the services will be.

It is tearing me apart as I write this, but you all were his friends, and ponding was his life's passion.  I know he would have wanted you all to know what happened instead of thinking he had just disappeared.  He spent many, many hours here, night after night, so he could share his love and passion for ponds with everyone here.  Please hold him in your prayers and memory that his legacy will remain.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.  May he rest in peace.

Sara Lou
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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #1 on: September 08, 2011, 11:06:10 PM »
I am so very sorry Sarah.  You are in my thoughts.

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #2 on: September 08, 2011, 11:19:47 PM »
This is so sad to hear Sarah.  I will be praying for you and your family.  Thank you for taking the time to let us know.
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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #3 on: September 09, 2011, 01:28:35 AM »
Sarah... I am so sorry to hear about Scott.  I always sought out his posts and read with great interest as he would generously share his experiences (ups and downs) over the years.  My thoughts are very much with you and the family x

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #4 on: September 09, 2011, 05:08:08 AM »
I am so sorry for your loss......Everyone here will miss him.
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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #5 on: September 09, 2011, 05:14:54 AM »
Sorry to hear this, Scott was one of our most active members. He sure kept the nightly Chat sessions going.

My condolences to you and your family.

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #6 on: September 09, 2011, 05:31:03 AM »
Sarah...I am so sorry to hear about Scott.  I was one of the many ponders he helped over the years.

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #7 on: September 09, 2011, 07:05:11 AM »
He will be missed by all.  So very sad. Condolences and our prayers
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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #8 on: September 09, 2011, 08:18:30 AM »
Oh dear, I am so sorry.

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #9 on: September 09, 2011, 09:46:26 AM »
when i saw the title i thought he had a bad pond problem . i'm shocked and hope you can cope , a sudden loss is much tougher than something that is anticipated over a long period of time . good luck . . .peace

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #10 on: September 09, 2011, 11:25:59 AM »
So very sorry for your loss, Sarah. 

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #11 on: September 09, 2011, 12:59:47 PM »
I am so sorry.
Thank you for letting all of us know, especially while grieving.
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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #12 on: September 09, 2011, 01:40:31 PM »
I am just so shocked at this devastating news.  I am so sorry for your loss and thank you for letting us know of his passing.   :'(   
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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #13 on: September 09, 2011, 01:44:50 PM »
I'm so very, very sorry about your loss Sara Lou . . .
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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #14 on: September 09, 2011, 03:30:25 PM »
Sarah, I can't believe it...Such a shock. I'm so sorry you have lost him. I can't imagine what you are going through. He was so helpful and knowledgeable here with info about ponds and lilies. We'll miss him too. Thanks for letting us know. I'd like to send flowers or something in his memory. Do you have any ideas?

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #15 on: September 09, 2011, 05:00:50 PM »
I am so sorry for your loss.  You will need lots of prayers and I am sure there are many coming your way from here on the forum.


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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #16 on: September 09, 2011, 05:22:52 PM »
Oh Sarah, I am so, so sorry.  His picture of Peanut next to his name always got my attention and I've thought to myself many times "he must be a fun guy to be around"!  We will all miss him.  I never participated in the evening chats. I imagine its going to be pretty lonesome for those members.  This is the only forum I participate in and I am continually amazed at how I consider these people to be my true friends.  Thank you for letting us know.  Take care of yourself.  Wish I could give you a big hug.

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #17 on: September 09, 2011, 06:04:42 PM »
Thanks for letting us know. His humor will be missed.
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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #18 on: September 09, 2011, 07:57:31 PM »
Sarah may god be with you at this difficult time. Our hearts go out to you at this time. God bless you and give you peace. Thank you for letting us know.

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #19 on: September 09, 2011, 08:02:41 PM »
Sarah,  I am so sorry about Scott. And may God be with you. I know you are in absolute shock.
Scott had told a few of us about some of his problem, and my reaction was oh you're too young
for that problem.  We will be praying for you, Sarah. My only advice to you right now is one step
at a time, one day at  a time.  Again, I'm sorry.  Was one of his chatters almost every night.

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #20 on: September 09, 2011, 09:43:46 PM »
Dear Friends of Scott.

I have registered this account so as not to continue use of Scott's username.

I thank you all for your kind words and prayers.  I was hoping I could give you some information tonight for anyone wishing to send flowers, cards, etc.
Unfortunately, there has been a big 'screw-up' with regard to the autopsy which has delayed the antisipated sequence of events.  At this point, I still do not have any information regarding cause of death, or even when we can bury him.

Myself and his family are hoping that we can finalise everything by tuesday.  As soon as I can find any definite time frame I will let you all know.

Once again, from my heart, I thank you all for your condolences and prayers.  I know Scott would be proud.
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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #21 on: September 10, 2011, 03:25:24 AM »
Shocking for me also. He was a nice colourful guy, used to read his posts here. He was always around and I still feel the same.

Share your sorrows and prayers for him.


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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #22 on: September 10, 2011, 06:36:05 AM »
Sara Lou, I am so sorry to hear of your tremendous loss and a true loss to us as well. I always knew that when I went to look at the chat room at 9 at night, Scott would be there. He will be greatly missed here as ell as in your home.
Thank you for taking the time to notify us. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Please let us know when you have more details.

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #23 on: September 10, 2011, 02:41:57 PM »
So sorry for your loss. You are in my heart. He will be missed by many.

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #24 on: September 10, 2011, 03:28:35 PM »
Sara, I'm sad to hear this news.   :(  My condolences to you and your family.  He will surely be missed.

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #25 on: September 10, 2011, 05:25:14 PM »
I'm so sorry to hear this.  Scott was always so knowledgeable and helpful. You and your loved ones will be in my thoughts and prayers. 

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #26 on: September 10, 2011, 07:44:22 PM »
OMG Im very sorry to heard this, I will be praying for you and your family

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #27 on: September 10, 2011, 08:49:48 PM »
OMG, Sara,

I am in shock here!  I am so sorry to hear of your loss, condolences to you and the family!  I couldn't believe it when I read this, I cried as I read your post!  People here are just like family, and I talked to Scott alot, just haven't been on lately.  So sorry again, such a shock!  He will be in many hearts and you will also!  Take care!

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Re: A very sad, tragic day
« Reply #29 on: September 11, 2011, 01:55:45 PM »
Thank you Mikey, thank you.

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