Hello again, I’ve been sick in bed the last couple days, fever, sore throat, congestion, aching, and my eyes hurt so bad I can only spend a small amount of time on the computer. First again I must apologize for any toes I stepped on in the beginning of this thread. I guess I was just so excited about getting the ok and go ahead from my husband. If I was a bit aggressive as Joyce so kindly pointed out, it was out of excitement not anger. As everyone else I have a lot of things on my plate, and little time. I am dealing with a home supportive care for my 90 yr old mother-in-law, and also her 85 yr. old sister, who we just had to place in assisted living and we are POA, helping my aging parents, my mom presently receiving another round of chemo, babysitting 2 nights a week, and of course working as a lot of others. I ultimately would love to have this pond accomplished before the birth of our next grandchild in May, which only gives me a few months to plan and execute. Then I can relax and enjoy him. Thanks to everyone whom has either welcomed me or helped with my questions. As some have pointed out, the title to this thread may be a bit misconceiving, and then I tend to ramble, so questions get lost in the content (see I’m doing it here also) I have gotten lots of fantastic opinions and even some other sights I’ve been told to check out. As for posting here, I will say I won’t go away, sorry you are stuck with me, you all seem to be a great group of people, and very, very knowledgeable. I’ve also learned to be a bit more patient even in the face of a whirlwind excitement. The responses did come, and I'm pleased, thank you.