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My oldest son just called
« on: May 15, 2007, 09:47:47 AM »
to say that their (tomorrow) two year old son is being admitted to DeVos Children's Hospital right now. The doctor suspects he has a Neuroblastoma. Here's a link.  It's scarey.  http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001408.htm#Definition

Eliana is 6 and is coming here to stay or maybe we'll be going up to their house so Ian who it 11 can continue going to school and my son and his wife won't have to worry about these two.

So needless to say, we are asking for prayer for the little guy and his parents and medical team.
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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #1 on: May 15, 2007, 09:56:01 AM »
Good luck!

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #2 on: May 15, 2007, 10:29:04 AM »
Oh, my Esther.  I'm saying an prayer for him, his family and you.

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #3 on: May 15, 2007, 11:50:23 AM »
I'll be thinking of you all.  emm

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #4 on: May 15, 2007, 02:06:18 PM »
Said a prayer for the little guy, and will keep all of you in my prayers.
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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #5 on: May 15, 2007, 02:44:52 PM »
Me too!!! It's always so scary when your kids are ill with anything. The level of this fear is unimaginable to me.
Praying!!!!!
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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #6 on: May 15, 2007, 02:51:03 PM »
Oh my Esther, that is very scary. My thoughts are with you and your grandson.

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #7 on: May 15, 2007, 03:31:44 PM »
OK, don't totally panic, the link did say sometimes in young children it goes away on it's own and also that sometimes surgery is enough.  I have 3 grown boys, I know how you feel tho. 

Thoughts and prayers with you also.

Try and keep a positive outlook and be supportive which I'm sure you are.

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #8 on: May 15, 2007, 03:47:05 PM »
Thinking about all of you Esther.  :hug:

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #9 on: May 15, 2007, 03:58:24 PM »
Kevin came about 3:15 and brought Eliana for the night. He said the hospital still hadn't gotten Braeden in a room or let him eat because he was to have an CT scan of his chest, abdomen, and pelvis, this afternoon. Needless to say, he had been crying and screaming mightily to the point of annoying the desk people. Kevin said he had heard them call up to the floor where Braeden was to be assigned twice to ask if the bed was ready yet. So maybe it did some good.

Kevin said that there is a palpable mass just under the rib cage between the front and side.

Ian, who is 12 just called and said he was at the hospital with his mom and dad and little brother. He said that Braeden was in a room and had eaten finally. They will do some exrays shortly and then the CT scan tomorrow morning. That's all I know for now.
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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #10 on: May 15, 2007, 03:59:43 PM »
Stay Strong!  My prayers for you and your family.

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #11 on: May 15, 2007, 08:34:16 PM »
You and your family are in my prayers
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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #12 on: May 15, 2007, 09:37:32 PM »
Esther, I'm so sorry. I hope it's the one that resolves on it's own. Prayers to you and your family.
Try not to worry too much, the little one is, I'm sure, in very good hands.
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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #13 on: May 15, 2007, 09:43:39 PM »
May God's wisdom be upon those doctors.  May his peace be upon you and the family.

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #14 on: May 15, 2007, 09:58:47 PM »
Oh my, the poor baby boy.  I will pray for him, his parents, siblings, and you, Esther.  :hug:

I pray the doctors can fix this.  I'm so glad you are able to help with one or both of the the other children right now, Esther.  That will be a real blessing to your son and his wife.   

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #15 on: May 16, 2007, 03:43:53 AM »
my prayers are with you and your family Esther.
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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #16 on: May 16, 2007, 03:54:12 AM »
Esther, prayers for your whole family and the medical staff coming your way.  :hug:
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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #17 on: May 16, 2007, 06:04:46 AM »
My thoughts are with you and your family. Please keep us updated on his progress.
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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #18 on: May 16, 2007, 06:21:56 AM »
Our prayers are with you all too, Stay strong.
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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #19 on: May 16, 2007, 06:58:20 AM »
I;m so sorry to hear this Esther!  Having a chronically ill child I know how difficult it is. Prayers with be with you, your family and the drs!

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #20 on: May 16, 2007, 09:15:19 AM »
Oh no, I am so sorry, that must be very frightening.  I will definitely keep him in my prayers.

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #21 on: May 16, 2007, 09:29:02 AM »
I can only imagin how you guys feel, I have 2 kids and they are 5 and 7.  I will pray for your family and him.
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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #22 on: May 16, 2007, 11:16:36 AM »
Just heard the results of the CT scan. It's not good.

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/95081/wilms_tumor_a_common_cancer_in_young.html

Surgery is tentatively planned for tomorrow. The tumor is called a Wilm's tumor and affects the kidney. He will lose a kidney.

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #23 on: May 16, 2007, 11:29:51 AM »
I'm so sorry Esther :( You all are in my thoughts and prayers  :hug:

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #24 on: May 16, 2007, 11:36:54 AM »
Oh Esther, so sorry to hear this.

Hopefully they can do the operation laproscopically ?sp? to make recovery much faster for him.
I know this has to be frightening but he will be okay.  Kids heal so much faster than us old folk..

Mom had her kidney removed and in no time was back to normal and she's an old lady.. yes she knows that we call her old woman. {:-P;;

Due to previous surgeries they had to remove it 'the old fashioned' way and also had alot of scar tissue and had to cut a part of her rib so it was more major than normal but as far as one kidney.. everything is just fine.   

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #25 on: May 16, 2007, 12:27:35 PM »
 So sorry to hear this. My prayers that all goes well.

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #26 on: May 16, 2007, 12:31:34 PM »
Esther I am so sorry, you have prayers from my family and I as well.
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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #27 on: May 16, 2007, 12:43:29 PM »
Oh no, Esther, I am so sorry to hear this.  Thoughts and prayers for the little guy. 

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #28 on: May 16, 2007, 12:51:32 PM »
I'm sorry to hear the news too, Esther. I hope the surgery goes well and he recovers well. I'll keep good thoughts for all of you.

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Re: My oldest son just called
« Reply #29 on: May 16, 2007, 01:33:37 PM »
Wow, Well we need to add hime to the prayer list as well. Sorry to hear that Esther.
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