Lynda, Lynda!
A philosopher are you! “Life = trade-off”
Don’t know what led you to a bluff over the Arkansas River with three acres, but you must have done something right in your life choices. Sounds to me like you’re doing all right. Here in Charlotte, NC we just had our second Trader Joe’s store open last month. See’s candy is available mail order (
http://www.sees.com/home.cfm ) and I’m sitting on one acre in a neighborhood fast becoming a Latino (That’s spelled “Illegal-Alien” ) Barrio which I have sculpted into my own private gardening nirvana in the 36 years I have lived here, and my wife of 45 years has decided in the last year that she wants to move. I keep her lemon trees over the winter in a hoophouse (it was 25 degrees here this morning) along with all my tropical plants. There’s no place on earth that could provide the amenities I have accrued here over the years, but that’s life (See above, re: trade-off).
Rejoice in your new place. My father’s roots were in southern Missouri and that part of the USA is not a bad place to be.
My son was in San Jose area of California for 10+ years (Currently an escapee in Wash. State). I found San Fran area a wonderful place to visit , but a sh** hole to live in (You know, the “land of fruits and nuts”).
As I write, I am listening to “Same Old Lang Syne” by Dan Fogleberg, who died December 26, 2007 at age 56. At 68 going on 69 (in three days) I cannot avoid the melancholic nostalgia embedded in the song.
Again, rejoice in your new surroundings and celebrate your escape!!!