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Saw Dad today . . . .
« on: October 14, 2006, 05:10:14 PM »
He actually looked pretty good.  He was up and about and in a pretty agreeable mood.  He's getting very skinny cuz the tumor is causing him to feel full all the time so he doesn't eat much.  Talked to one of the cancer docs last week - won't give you my opinion of him.  Going to talk to a new one on Monday to see if he has anything helpful to offer.  Dad's accepted what's going on and doesn't seem too keen on doing much to fight it at this point, and that's his decision to make.  I'll only push him if someone has something that will make him more comfortable.  Mom's still pretty ticked off about the whole situation . . . . want's him to fight more, wants him to stay with her, doesn't want to move, etc.  I can't blame her for feeling that way either.

It was a gorgeous day up in the mountains - crisp and cool, but sunny and smelled like autumn.  The girls spent an hour lost in a corn maze and had a great time.  We bought a peck of apples and a terra cotta pumpkin. 

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Re: Saw Dad today . . . .
« Reply #1 on: October 14, 2006, 05:13:46 PM »
Sounds like a good day. 8)
Glad you understand both your parents viewpoints.

But I feel so bad about your dad. :'(
Cancer sucks. >:(
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Re: Saw Dad today . . . .
« Reply #2 on: October 14, 2006, 05:20:33 PM »
Cancer sucks. >:(


I think that just might be the understatement of all time . . . .

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Re: Saw Dad today . . . .
« Reply #3 on: October 14, 2006, 06:03:59 PM »
That's for sure.

I am so sorry you are going through this Teresa. :(

You know I lost my stepfather Al to cancer, it was a horrible few months. :'(
You know we will all be here for you whenever you need us. (8:-)

I think losing my dad real quick from a sudden heart attack was a lot easier.
May sound cruel, but it is not meant to be.
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Re: Saw Dad today . . . .
« Reply #4 on: October 14, 2006, 06:20:34 PM »
Sorry Teresa for your sadness. Glad you had some good time today though.

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Re: Saw Dad today . . . .
« Reply #5 on: October 14, 2006, 06:42:44 PM »
I'm sorry Teresa.  That's really tough.  My prayers are with you and your family.
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Re: Saw Dad today . . . .
« Reply #6 on: October 14, 2006, 07:39:44 PM »
"Dad's accepted what's going on and doesn't seem too keen on doing much to fight it at this point, and that's his decision to make"

My Dad felt exactly the same way. Gotta respect that, hard as it is. Just enjoy every moment of time that you get to spend with him. You will remember and cherish those moments.

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Re: Saw Dad today . . . .
« Reply #7 on: October 15, 2006, 03:01:37 AM »
Teresa... I admire the way you are responding to your Dad's wishes.  I have seen so many people bully and take 'control' of their relatives and snatch away their choices and dignity.  Sounds like you are doing the right thing by exploring the possibility of an alternative doctor... whatever your Dad's wishes are, he does need a good understanding doctor to promote the quality of life, by minimising pain and suffering and to encourage a positive outlook where possible.

Thinking of you and the family.

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Re: Saw Dad today . . . .
« Reply #8 on: October 15, 2006, 09:28:31 AM »
I'm glad to hear you spent some time with your Dad. Both your parents are going through some rough times and it's good that you are able to see it through their eyes. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

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Re: Saw Dad today . . . .
« Reply #9 on: October 15, 2006, 10:56:02 AM »
Thanks everyone . . . I'm trying hard to keep a level head thru this and it's not easy.  I didn't post this for sympathy, just to let everyone who was so supportive when this first broke know what's up. 

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Re: Saw Dad today . . . .
« Reply #10 on: October 19, 2006, 02:15:11 AM »
It's never going to be easy my friend, but we are here for you.

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Re: Saw Dad today . . . .
« Reply #11 on: October 19, 2006, 04:29:43 AM »
Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers Teresa
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