Hey there - we grow LOTS of sunflowers.
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The birdies like them, and I like to look at them. I rarely go to the trouble to harvest them.
1) Wrong potting medium. The coarse bark doesn't hold water or roots well for the seedling. The hair like roots can't penetrate the bark. Try something with some sand. Top soil is good enough if you add a little vermiculite (so it doesn't pack up).
2) The stems on your seedlings are too long - that means that they aren't getting enough sun. Put them where they get direct light.
3) The photo of the wilted one shows the plant has consumed the cotyledon without sprouting new leaves - this is because it doesn't have sufficient successful root growth to support leaf growth - so you need a different soil, light, water, and may a mild fertilizer. I"m a big user of Miracle gro - for seedlings dilute it 1:2, so its even milder, and you can water more often in porous potting medium.