Michelle, no scrapbook, no lengthy gushy goodbye,
nothing.He doesn't deserve it. And you're better than that.
Give him nothing, no emotion...cut and dry, like you said: detached and indifferent.
Do NOT allow him to control you enough to move, or change your life in any way.
This includes controlling your emotions. Be in control.
YOU control your life. Stay put, and continue growing gorgeous lilies,
posting gorgeous pix, and discussing gorgeous lilies with your AP friends.
I wouldn't even visit his mom, why subject yourself to that?
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It's like rubbing salt in the wound. :'(
Best thing to do to protect yourself from any more pain is a
clean break.That means no contact with him or his family.
And for you to pick yourself up and continue on with YOUR life.
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No looking back, just one life experience smarter...AND STRONGER.
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Remember, if you move away and start over completely somewhere else...he is controlling you.
Only YOU should control YOU.
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That goes for marriages too.
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